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Text Rest of your article	> > Ok, I need to know the deal about J-Girls... why are you guys sooooo desprete for them? > > Well, men are always desparate from women (and vice versa.) Since we are here in Japan, J-girls are the obvious choice. Of course, I don`t think this is what you are driving at. > > > Well, where do I start? > > I am a chick from NZ and I am here (as a lot of others are) teaching English near Tokyo. > > On the programme I came with, as well as on other Japan sites like this one, all I seem to hear from the guys is how much they want a J-girl! > > > > Now I do agree that some are pretty, but there are pretty girls all over the world. But what is it that they have over us other chicks? > > It`s hard to say. I think it all comes down to the individual woman as opposed to lumping everything in a group. Personally, I am physically attracted to Asian women because of their legs, their bottoms, and their eyes. I like the body type, bottom line (pun intended.) This doesn`t mean that my particular sources of attraction can`t be found in a Western woman, but they certainly are more prevalent in Asian women. > > > > > Personally, I dont think I am butt-ugly nor am I super-model material, but an attractive chick who enjoys a good time. But so many of the guys who I have spoken to here would be classed geeks in their own countries, but seem to be treated like Gods here in Japan just because they are foreign. Is this why geeky guys come here? Because they can't get laid in their own countries?? > > Hehehe, okay here you sound just a little too bitter. It sounds a little like you can`t get a date, and it pisses you off (which is understandable.) There are plenty of J-Guys around who would find you exotic. > > And of course, if someone was totally geeky in their own country, and came to another country and were treated like a God, they wouldn`t actually have any cause for complaint. I don`t see anything wrong with that. I don`t quite think that that would be enough of a reason for anyone to actually move to another country, but it sure doesn`t hurt as a bonus. > > >Personally, I go by personality not by looks first (but looks do help) and to be able to have a heart to heart where both people can understand is a big bonus of a relationship... is that another reason why foreign guys want a J-chick who may not speak great english because they can be dominant over them?? > > Sure personality is important. Very Important, and to me looks are important as well. I hate to classify things by group, but here is a theory I have. Japanese men supposedly treat their women very poorly. Offer your coat to a woman if she is cold? Not even in the realm of reasonable expectation, the woman is supposed to offer her coat to the guy. Now along comes a foreign guy who treats a women in what he feels is a reasonable fashion, opens doors, offers coats, etc etc.. and what happens? Appreciation. The woman actually appreciates it. It is not taken for granted. These things do not go unnoticed. > > I have sketched this example in Black and White, and things are never as clear cut as that. But it may contain a small part of the answer you are looking for.
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