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Text Rest of your article	> > Ok, I need to know the deal about J-Girls... why are you guys sooooo desprete for them? > > Well, where do I start? > > I am a chick from NZ and I am here (as a lot of others are) teaching English near Tokyo. > > On the programme I came with, as well as on other Japan sites like this one, all I seem to hear from the guys is how much they want a J-girl! > > > > Now I do agree that some are pretty, but there are pretty girls all over the world. But what is it that they have over us other chicks? > > > > Personally, I dont think I am butt-ugly nor am I super-model material, but an attractive chick who enjoys a good time. But so many of the guys who I have spoken to here would be classed geeks in their own countries, but seem to be treated like Gods here in Japan just because they are foreign. Is this why geeky guys come here? Because they can't get laid in their own countries?? Personally, I go by personality not by looks first (but looks do help) and to be able to have a heart to heart where both people can understand is a big bonus of a relationship... is that another reason why foreign guys want a J-chick who may not speak great english because they can be dominant over them?? > > > > Anyways, I apologise if this makes no real sense, I don't really know how to explain how I feel, but yeah, reply with your explanations, I'm really interested in hearing your reasons.... > > After a number of years working and travling throughout Asia I met, fell in love with, and eventually married a beautiful Nihon fujin. Amazingly, when I continued my travels and work in Asia with my new wife, I suddenly found that all other Asians had a great increase in respect for me. This resulted from a strong belief, throughout the area, that the best of all lives was based on the following four ideals . . . > 1. I had a Japanese wife. > 2. I had a Chinese cook. (I did not, but I was an acomplished cook of Chinese cusine so I was covered there.) > 3. I lived in a Western style house. > 4. I had an American salary. (This attribute was later offset by the limitless expense accounts that Japanese men of my business status had that made it appear that they had big salaries.) > > But, the Japanese wife was the overiding consideration in this formula for the "Good Life". The reason for this is the she and I were not only imminently compatible, but her intelligence and adaptability caused us to become a "team", working together to enhance both our own personal lives and our efforts on behalf of whatever company I might be working for. My love was far from subservient, quickly teaching me the difference between stubborn and obstinate. In her case, "stubborn" meant "I won't do that." and "obstinate" meant "I won't do that, even if you kill me!" > > 32 years later and we still work as a perfect team in all asspects of our lives. She looks half her age, loves everything in our lives, and we have never had what most people refer to as a fight. Arguments, yes. But we have never gone to bed mad at each other. > > This is a far cry from my previous wife and every other Western woman I ever married, dated, or worked with. They just cannot be compared!
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