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Text Rest of your article	> Hey- > > As having spent three consecutive years in Tokyo working and dating Japanese women, I feel as though I have valid input on this subject. I think of myself as a very attractive man, and really never had any problems with dating women in the United States (the worst of the lot as far as most men are concerned) It seems as though western women become very upset and confused with this as they spend time in Japan; which is only fitting I suppose as the general consensus with western women is that Japanese men are updatable. > > I will not date, nor ever marry a westernized woman now that I have lived in Japan... (this attitude is growing at an alarming rate for western women). The reason why many Western men date and then choose to marry Japanese woman is their adherence to a domestic code. > > Post women's-lib era Western woman have been taught, almost from birth, to focus exclusively on bettering themselves and creating a social environment free from a dependence on men as providers. The fostering of this attitude over the last forty years has produced, in my opinion, women ill prepared for the duties of a wife... while men have held the same roll socially. The new, young men of today see this and are preparing for it. Why would I want to date a woman I can not marry? Especially now that gender roll for Western women has become so blurred... I'm twenty-four years old, have never been married nor have children. > > Japanese women fit the bill socially. The socially accepted norm in Japan as the proper environment for family life, is not the norm, nor what is expected in today's westernized households. Men see this and don't want anything to do with it. Western women destroyed the nuclear family; now Western men see no reason to date or marry them. It is pointless; there is no longer any benefit to it. > > Japanese women provide western men with the lifestyle and family life we want, but are really no longer able to get back home. All the negative attention western women focus on these beautiful, accommodating women of the east, should be directed at themselves, in finding a solution to THERE PROBLEM!
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